“The best recovery experience here, community and coaching, not device monitoring.”
Relay approaches the same problem from the opposite direction. Instead of monitoring your screen, it builds recovery from the inside out, daily check-ins, urge logging, journaling, science-based courses, and small peer teams that support one another. Its reframing is that this is a 'pain problem,' not just a porn problem.
The execution is excellent. Relay carries a 4.8 rating on both the App Store and Google Play across thousands of reviews, the courses are led by credentialed clinicians, and users can choose a faith-plus-psychology or psychology-only path. It's genuinely one of the best-designed apps in this space.
The caveat matters for this category: Relay does not monitor your devices or send reports to an ally the way the others do. If your definition of accountability is transparent oversight, it won't replace Covenant Eyes or Truple. If you want structured recovery and community, often alongside a monitoring app, it's superb, though live group meetings cost extra.
Anyone who wants structured, science-based recovery and real community, ideally paired with a monitoring app for full accountability.
You specifically need device monitoring, screenshots, or reports sent to an accountability partner, Relay doesn't do that.
No, Relay is a recovery community and coaching app, not a monitoring or blocking tool; it focuses on habits, courses, and peer support.
It offers both a faith-plus-psychology track and a psychology-only track, so you can choose the framing that fits you.
Courses are led by credentialed professionals, including a psychiatrist and a licensed counselor, and are grounded in recovery science.
The app is free to download with a paid membership (often around $12/month or $149/year); live group meetings cost extra.
Not for monitoring, many people use Relay alongside a monitoring app rather than instead of one.